Friday, June 6, 2014

The joys of being single

When I first split up with my husband I was devastated now that I am coming to term with things I am actually learning that I like being single !

Let's think about together shall we; I do not have to share the bed, if I want to sleep on the left, I do it. I want to sleep on the right guess where I sleep...that's right the right side but most nights I am right smack in the middle of the bed with all the pillows and blankets and no tug of war session going on here.

There are some days where I do not feel like cooking dinner and I will just eat cereal or a salad, well guess what I do not need to worry about cooking for a significant other. I do cook for my child of course but she is easy :-) 

I love my apartment it reflects me and only me, I did not have to worry or even compromise on decor, it was great !  I know I am sounding quite selfish and full of myself but I am the complete opposite, while married it was all about him and making sure he was comfortable, fed and cared for. Now it's all about me and the off spring. I only have myself to clean up after, and the kiddo but I wait till she is sleeping otherwise it's like shoveling during a blizzard, lol ( I love that analogy )

There are days where I am sad and miss someone there to cuddle with me and watch a movie or help carry the groceries in or just be there to listen and talk too but then I look around and see where I am now and think about how much I actually like living alone. And really towards the end of the relationship none of that stuff I miss was actually happening I was alone A LOT. 

This has been sitting on my brain, why not unload it here it's the reason why I started this blog not just for product review it's to talk about my everyday living and thoughts and for me to well ramble. 

Happy Friday.

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