This is an out of the norm post for me since it's going to get personal and not about products or coupons !
Someone once told me that people come into your life for a reason, season or or life. My best friend from high school was here a couple weeks ago, I have not seen her for about 8 years ( could be longer ) and she and I picked up like we saw one another the day before. That relationship is a lifer for sure ! Another lifer is my bestest friend ( I have always called him that ) John, he has told me so much stuff as have I told him and we have yet to turn our backs. I also think he has made it a personal mission to be private bodyguard, lol.
Relationships are funny, my current best friend didn't become my best friend till I got pregnant with Gina after that BAM she has continued to be there through tears and smiles. She is my rock and def another lifer !! And you just never know where you will make an awesome friend, I made one at a dealership about 6 years ago. Who the heck makes friends at a dealership..me that's who !
The internet has played a role in my friendships as well. I have met several great friends through it and some not so great people ! One person in particular comes to mind when I think about a lifer that I "met" over the internet that I have never seen face to face. I remember one Christmas several years back where I had just gotten married, I had little money, no job meaning not a great Christmas for my older one. I was emailing Ant, he knew all about my issues and he mailed a gift card to me so buy gifts ! Who does that for someone they never met ? A really good, trusting friend that's who. I will never forget that. That is a lifer for sure.
Thinking of a person who came into life for a reason is Charlie. He was the best man at my best friend's wedding. I was in an awful relationship at that time and not in a good place ( not my current husband for clarification ) Well Charlie showed me what it was like to be treated with respect and like a lady. I ditched the loser. I think I need another visit from Charlie for a refresher !!!!
Relationships can be terrible too and confusing. Make the most of all your relationships, you just never know if you will have tomorrow. To all my lifers and season...thank you :-)
To all my other tough to decipher relationships well hopefully it all works out the way it's supposed too.
Thanks for reading.
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